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Possessive vs. Object Pronouns (its/it, their/them, his/him...)

Grammar rules

English has two different pronoun forms depending on the job the pronoun is doing in a sentence: a possessive determiner (my, your, his, her, its, our, their) that shows ownership and always attaches to a noun, and an object pronoun (me, you, him, her, it, us, them) that stands in for the noun itself, usually as the receiver of an action. Mixing them up is one of the most common small errors in everyday writing.

The pattern

✗ I saw them car in the driveway.
✓ I saw their car in the driveway. (possessive — describes whose car)
✗ Give it to my.
✓ Give it to me. (object — receives the action "give")

Quick test

Ask whether the pronoun is followed immediately by a noun it's describing ("their car," "our house," "his opinion") or whether it's standing alone as a receiver of an action or preposition ("give it to them," "wait for us," "listen to him"). Describing a noun → possessive. Standing alone → object.

The full set

Possessive (+ noun)Object (stands alone)
my bookgive it to me
your ideaI told you
his answerask him
its colorlook at it
our planwait for us
their houseI called them

The one everyone actually stumbles on: its vs. it's

This isn't the possessive/object confusion above — it's a different trap. "Its" (no apostrophe) is the possessive form. "It's" (with an apostrophe) is always a contraction of "it is" or "it has," never a possessive.

✗ The company changed it's policy.
✓ The company changed its policy.
✓ It's raining. (It is raining.)

If you can replace "it's" with "it is" and the sentence still makes sense, the apostrophe belongs. If not, you want "its."

Catching this automatically

These mix-ups slip through because both forms of each pair are real, correctly spelled words — spell-check won't catch them, only grammar-level context will. Proofread Bot checks pronoun usage in context and flags exactly this category of mistake.

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